Happy Life

 If you get misunderstood, negative things can affect you. It is a special skill to always be in the right place in your life. Don’t assume it’s luck. In spiritual traditions,

 Joining an association or the right kind of company has always been a very important part of one’s development. Because there are very few people out there, no matter where they are, they will still be on the road. All other human beings need help. If they are not in the right company, they are less likely to do the right thing. Unfortunately, this is a fact. This is not necessarily unfortunate because by what it means, they are open to influence.
It is the responsibility of the social fabric to create a conducive environment for each individual that is beautiful to that individual and to everyone around him/her.
But always or rarely, societies fulfill this responsibility
In the true sense of the word, since societies are not allowed, societies are allowed to undergo metamorphosis. Depending on what the influence is, it grows in that direction. I don’t know, I still don’t want to believe that they are telling me about pornography on 80% of the content on the internet. I still don’t believe it’s possible. But those who know are telling me, that’s it. “It’s a sick world. Eighty percent is not a healthy world, it is a sick world. So living under the right kind of influence, an influence that nurtures you towards your ultimate truth, an influence that gives you the courage and strength you need to walk the path of integrity. Because with a weak sense of stability, no one will ever be spiritual. And it’s important to understand that in order to kill bad things, you don’t have to be targeted. If you get misunderstood, negative things can affect you.
Within the geography of your body, there is dirt and fragrance.
Which one do you open for yourself and everyone around you? This is a big question.
It has a special level of awareness and a specific company.
That is why truth is so important.
The Heart Center is the funniest place on the planet. If you fall into it,
Feeling you have emotionally.
But you should not fall into this pit, you have to fall into this pit
But you got the geography wrong because you have the wrong history. Your karma is your history,
But you can either fall into this pit or into this pit. It will be the experience of your life.
Therefore, falling in the right place,
This is a special ability. You have to add to it. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.

 

 

destiny

 When pangs of passion arise for dimensions that are of no personal concern begins the adventure of life. What a croaking told you should be to invest life into transactions of ventures of exchange.An adventure not a conquest but a surrender of Oneself to something that has no return on investment. 

Since you woke up today morning till this moment let's leave the sleeping time since you came awake fully from that moment to this moment your body has been doing its things,  Physical activities are happening both outwardly and inwardly happening. That's why we're alive it's happening. The mental activity has been happening emotional activity is happening energy activity is happening. How much of these four dimensions of activity did you perform consciously from the moment you came awake till now. How much do you think? what percentage?

What percentage well... below 1% believe me. When...you perform activity consciously less than 1% over 99% is unconscious

everything will look accidental, isn't it? Everything looks like divine intervention because 99% of the time you're unconscious do one thing

when you drive today - wherever you drive, 99% of the time close your eyes and drive you will see how many people you will meet. But...if you drive with your eyes open fully conscious you're not going to meet anybody like with this with the bang. Things will happen in a completely different way. How conscious we are will determine how much of our destiny we determine. How unconscious you determine how much of your destiny is accidental! Everything that's accidental

we want to attribute it to some other force elsewhere. Now, this must stop we must understand it is we are there no other force of course...

you didn't make the creation or did I, all right? You did not create this creation nor did I create this creation there is but that is a different dimension altogether. And what is happening with you right now

is entirely your making from where you come from. Pakistan is the only culture on the planet that constantly told you your life is your karma.

Karma means... you're doing. Your life is your making. Whatever may be happening you may be able to logically figure out, why it is so?

You may not be able to figure it out but still, you know one thing if this is happening to me, this is my making. This is the greatest empowerment you can have when you understand: "My life is my making!" Whatever happened till now, it doesn't matter. How will you make your tomorrow? I'm asking you. If you clearly know 100%

"My life is my making" how will you make the next moment,

how will you make a tomorrow, how will you make your future

in the most beautiful way, isn't it so? That's what needs to happen.

How to have control over my mind. First, you must decide whether you want to control your mind or liberate your mind. Please consider this,

all of you who are always thinking of controlling your mind.

First, make up your mind. Do you want this controlled, do you want this liberated? "Oh, then I will go mad." Who said you are not right now? Do you have a certificate like that? This happened in Karachi city. The young boy, nineteen twenty-year-old boys, went into some psychological problems. Those days when I was young, those days, there is no sensitivity about these things. Somebody is little psychologically disturbed means immediately says he is mad.

So he went to the psychiatrist. He became an inpatient for some three months or four months and then he came back. In the evening, where all the young boys gather, he also went there. There, "Ah you're mad, aren't you.. You're, you're gone, you're a loony" because you've been in the mental hospital for four months,

you're finished", whatever. The boy was hurt but he didn't know what to do. Two-three days he went there, every day they were...battering him with this. So one day he pulled out a paper from his pocket and he said, "See, here I have a certificate that now I'm normal. Do you have one?" The hospital gave him a certificate that now he's normal he's fit to go back.

Do any of you have, you don't have. I'm the one who has a certificate.

Who is sane who is insane now. So, first thing is, just consider this one question profoundly, the next 24 hours. Do you want your mind in control or do you want it liberated? Maybe tomorrow we'll explore that.

This has always been the fad in the world that is whenever you succeed is you... whenever you fail it's destiny.

Yes? Whenever you're successful with something you're proud of your success. That means in some way you're taking the credit for your success, isn't it? Whenever you fail it must be God's will. It has to be

or anything that you cannot understand has to be God's will. So many things which were destiny a few years ago is no more destiny, isn't it so Yes? Suppose you had four children and you lost two children

100 years ago it was destiny not anymore, isn't it so? Yes or no?

Not anymore, is it so? Now, you know why 100 years ago, you were young and fine, and well... at least you were young and you suddenly died at 30

it was destiny if you die today at 30 we know why you're drinking too much, you're eating or not eating properly, you are smoking, you're doing something, we know you're killing yourself, even when you started we know you're killing yourself, isn't it? No more destiny

100 years ago if half the Sindh population did not have water to drink it was destiny now we know hope...isn't so? It's own so a lot of things which were destiny are no more destiny why? Because of your understanding...the scope of your understanding is increasing

as the scope of your understanding is enhanced more and more things are falling out of the list of destiny and becoming your responsibility, isn't it so? 

Even now in the religions like that let's go off it's God's doing. Now we know, isn't it? If you are running a power company nerve annoys you.

So, because our understanding and perception of life has been so limited we have made everything into destiny. What you call destiny

are those dimensions of life which you created unconsciously.

Whatever you can create unconsciously you can also create consciously. If you create consciously it will not be destiny if you create it unconsciously it all seems to be destiny but it's still your doing. In this country, there has never been any destiny business that came from elsewhere country they always told you no matter what happens to your life it is your karma. Know what karma means Action!

This thing doesn't matter what's happening to you, you live or you die, it's your karma. You live well or you live badly that's your Karma that means what it's your actions which is creating this. Maybe a large part of your actions is unconscious. That doesn't matter but it still your actions. So when we say karma that means not destiny...everything is yours! With too much looking at the Stars we do much interested in various other planets except this planet. I hope people paid the same attention to this planet as they're planing you know... paying to the other planets it's time we pay some attention to this planet. Because, how this planet is will decide the quality of your life. How the other planets are, will not decide the quality of your life right now. Too much attention is being paid to other planets you For all the nonsense that you have done to your life destiny is a simple escape. Oh, it's my destiny that's why I'm like this. Now whatever you call your destiny

is also self-created.You're creating it unconsciously. You can also create it consciously.

There are certain parameters in your life. I think we looked at this the other day when somebody asked for karma. You have unconsciously written a certain software for yourself. So you are tending to go in that direction. Whatever you try to do, it just keeps going in this direction.

You want to go here, but it just keeps taking you this way because your software is like that. It develops certain tendencies and starts moving in a certain direction. This does not mean you cannot redirect yourself. Yes, it's quite compulsive. It needs an effort beyond body and mind to completely change that and put it in a different direction.

What we're doing here, the whole science of what we're doing here is just that. If you make your energies a little more malleable. If you gain a little more mastery over your life energies and a little more mastery over your mind and body you will see you can become one hundred percent master of your destiny. I'm talking about science where you can choose the very womb that you're born into. Even now you're choosing

but you're choosing unconsciously. You can also choose consciously.

Whether to be born or not to be born also can be chosen. It is just that how much have you taken into the perspective of your life? If you have mastery over your body about fifteen to twenty percent of your destiny will be in your hands. If you have mastery over your mind

about fifty to sixty percent of your life and your destiny will be in your hands. If you have mastery over your life energies one hundred percent of your destiny will be in your hands.

Regards,

Gulshan Atique Bahalim.

قدرت کا تجربہ

 

قدرت کا تجربہ

 بہتر تجربے کے ل Please ، براہ کرم غور سے پڑھیں۔ آپ کیوں ... کسی دن کو برا دن یا اچھے دن کے طور پر لیبل لگانے کی کوشش کر رہے ہیں؟ یہ صرف انسان ہی ہیں جو اپنے تجربے میں یہ کام خود سے کرتے ہیں۔ وہ یہ کام اپنے آپ سے کیوں کرتے ہیں - دیکھیں ، آج یہاں ایک شاندار طلوع آفتاب ہوا۔ کرہ ارض میں لاکھوں پھول پھول گئے۔ بہت ساری حیرت انگیز باتیں ہو رہی ہیں۔ یہاں تک کہ ابھی ستارے پلک جھپک رہے ہیں۔ آج چاند پورا ہے۔ سب کچھ لاجواب ہے لیکن ... آپ کے دماغ میں سوچ کا ایک کیڑا آپ کو ختم کرسکتا ہے۔

کیا ایسا نہیں ہے؟ تو یہ کیوں ہے کہ آپ کہیں بھی موجود ہیں یا آپ اپنے نفسیاتی عمل کو وجودی عمل کے مقابلے میں بہت زیادہ اہم قرار دے رہے ہیں۔ زندگی ہونے کی بجائے ، آپ ایک نفسیاتی معاملہ بن رہے ہیں ، ہاں ، کیونکہ ... آپ کا سوچنے کا عمل اور آپ کا جذبات وجودی عمل سے کہیں زیادہ اہم ہوچکا ہے۔ بس یہی مسئلہ ہے ، ہے نا؟ یا دوسرے الفاظ میں ، تخلیق ، خالق کی تخلیق نے آپ پر ابھی تک کافی اثر نہیں کیا ہے۔ لہذا آپ کے خیال میں ، آپ کے دماغ میں آپ کی چھوٹی چھوٹی تخلیق اس سے بڑی ہے ، یا اسے دو ٹوک الفاظ میں کہنا ہے کہ ، آپ خود سے بھی بے وقوف ہیں ، یہی وجہ ہے کہ آپ کا دن خراب ہوسکتا ہے۔

                           ورنہ ، کیوں؟ ‘نہیں ، اسٹاک مارکیٹ کریش ہو گیا۔ سورج کی کیا بات ہے۔ بہت ساری چیزیں ہوتی ہیں۔ کیا اس کا مطلب یہ کہنا ہے کہ میری زندگی میں کچھ بھی غلط نہیں ہوتا ہے؟ میری زندگی میں کسی اور کی زندگی سے کہیں زیادہ چیزیں غلط ہو جاتی ہیں ، شاید یہاں کوئی بھی مجھے اس کی وجہ سے کہے

میں کسی بھی چیز میں صرف اپنا ہاتھ ڈالنے سے نہیں ہچکچاتا ہوں۔ جب آپ کسی بھی چیز پر ہاتھ ڈالیں گے تو ، بہت ساری چیزیں آپ کو کاٹ دیں گی ، ٹھیک ہے؟ قدرتی طور پر ، یہ ہوگا۔ میں چاہتا ہوں کہ آپ اس کو سمجھیں ، تکلیف کا سارا عمل لازمی ہے کہ آپ نے آنکھیں نہیں کھولی ہیں ، آپ نے اپنی آنکھیں ٹھیک سے نہیں کھوٹی ہیں ، اور آپ کے آس پاس ہونے والی ہر چیز کی عظمت کو دیکھیں ، ابھی نہیں۔ آپ نے توجہ نہیں دی۔ آپ نے دنیا کو اس طرح دیکھا۔ اگر آپ صرف ایک چیز کو دیکھیں تو آپ یقین نہیں کرسکتے ہیں کہ یہ کیسا ہے۔ اگر آپ کبھی چیونٹی کو دیکھیں تو ذرا دیکھیں کہ اس میں کس طرح کی ٹکنالوجی چلی گئی ہے۔ یہ آپ کو ساری زندگی تحقیق میں مصروف رکھ سکتا ہے۔ ہاں یا نہیں؟ تو مسئلہ بس یہ ہے کہ آپ جو کچھ اپنے سر میں ہو رہا ہے اس کو بہت زیادہ اہمیت دے رہے ہیں ، وجود میں ہونے والی تمام شاندار چیزوں پر توجہ نہیں دے رہے ہیں۔

میں نے وجود میں کبھی برا دن نہیں دیکھا۔ میں نے لوگوں کے مزاج اور دماغ میں صرف برے دن دیکھے ہیں ، ہے نا؟ یہ انسانوں کی حیثیت سے بہت اہم ہے کہ ہمارا کثیر الجہت ذہن ہے جو وہ بہت سی چیزوں کے بارے میں سوچ سکتا ہے۔

لہذا جب ہم کچھ مخصوص کرنا چاہتے ہیں تو یہ ہمارے ذہن میں اہم ہے ،

ہمارا جذبات ، ہماری توانائیاں ، اور بنیادی طور پر ہمارا شعور ، ہماری سمت میں مرکوز ہے۔ اس لئے دعوتیں اس طرف ہیں کہ ایک خاص سرگرمی شروع کرنے سے پہلے ہم خود کو اس سرگرمی کی طرف راغب کرتے ہیں۔ کیونکہ ابھی یہ سب سے بڑا مسئلہ ہے کہ انسان خود اپنی ذہانت کو سنبھالنا نہیں جانتا ہے۔

جب وہ یہ کر رہے ہیں تو وہ اس کے بارے میں سوچ رہے ہوں گے۔ اس میں ، تمام انسان کی صلاحیت ختم ہوگئ ہے۔

انسانی ذہانت آسانی سے سامنے نہیں آتی کیونکہ ہر وقت جب وہ گھر میں ہوتے ہیں تو وہ کام کر رہے ہوتے ہیں ... جب وہ کام پر ہوتے ہیں تو وہ گھر ہوتے ہیں۔

اب وہ گھر پر کام کر رہے ہیں ، مجھے معلوم ہے لیکن وہ کہیں اور ہیں۔

لہذا یہ ایک بنیادی چیز ہے جو ہمیں تمام طلباء اور آنے والے رہنماؤں کو لانے کی ضرورت ہے ، آپ کو لازمی طور پر ... میکانزم تیار کریں اگر آپ کر سکتے ہیں یا ہم ایسے میکانزم دے سکتے ہیں جس کے ذریعہ آپ اپنے آپ کو کسی خاص کام کی طرف راغب کرسکتے ہیں کہ آپ ابھی کر رہے ہیں

آپ میں سے ہر چیز ، آپ کا جسم ، آپ کا دماغ آپ کے جذبات ، آپ کی توانائیاں ...

خوشی سے تعاون کرنا چاہئے۔ آپ انہیں ساتھ نہیں گھسیٹ سکتے ہیں۔

کیونکہ جس کو بھی گھسیٹا جاتا ہے وہ ایک چیز کا بوجھ ہے

ایک اور چیز یہ ہے کہ ... وہ ناقابل بیان ہیں۔ اگر آپ کسی کو اپنے ساتھ کسی جگہ گھسیٹتے ہیں تو آپ دیکھیں گے کہ وہ اس مسئلے کا ایک نہ ختم ہونے والا ذریعہ ہیں۔

آپ کا اپنا جسم ، آپ کا اپنا دماغ ، آپ کے اپنے جذبات ، سب سے زیادہ انسانوں کی زندگیوں میں ان کی پریشانی کا ایک نہ ختم ہونے والا ذریعہ بن جاتے ہیں۔

صرف اس وجہ سے کہ وہ اپنے دماغ کو گھسیٹ رہے ہیں ، وہ اپنے جذبات کو گھسیٹ رہے ہیں ، وہ اپنی توانائیاں ایسی جگہوں پر گھسیٹ رہے ہیں جہاں جانا نہیں چاہتا ہے۔ انہوں نے ان کا رخ اختیار نہیں کیا ہے ، انہیں راضی نہیں کیا ہے۔

تو یہ ایک بنیادی چیز ہے جس کا ہر ایک کو خیال رکھنا چاہئے

خاص طور پر اگر آپ کسی صلاحیت میں دنیا میں قائد بننا چاہتے ہیں

تب یہ بہت اہم ہے کیوں کہ اگر آپ اپنی سوچ اور جذبات کو سنبھال نہیں سکتے ہیں تو آپ ایک ہزار افراد کو کس طرح سنبھال لیں گے یہ ایک لطیفہ ہے! اگر آپ قائد بننا چاہتے ہیں تو آپ کو توجہ کی ضرورت ہے۔ آپ کو ان چیزوں کو سمجھنے کے قابل ہونا چاہئے جو وہ ہیں

اس کے لئے نہیں جو آپ کے خیال میں ہے۔ آپ جو بھی بکواس چاہتے ہو سوچ سکتے ہیں

لیکن وہاں جو چیز ہے اسے سمجھنا سب سے اہم ہے ، ہے نا؟ اگر آپ حل لانا چاہتے ہیں تو آپ کو سمجھنا ہوگا کہ وہاں کیا ہے۔

حوالے،

گلشن عتیق بہلم۔

Experiencing Nature

 

For a Better Experience, Please read carefully. Why are you...trying to label a day as a bad day or a good day? It is only human beings who in their experience they do these things to themselves. Why they do these things to themselves is – see, today there was a glorious sunrise. Millions of flowers blossomed across the planet. So many wonderful things are happening. Even the stars are twinkling right now. The moon is full today. Everything is fantastic but... one worm of a thought in your head can make a mess out of you.

Isn't it so? So why this is so is somewhere you are giving or ascribing a lot more important to your psychological process than the existential process. Instead of being life, you’re being a psychological case, yes, because...your thought process and your emotion have become far more important than the existential process. That is the only problem, isn't it? Or in other words, the creation, the Creator’s creation has not impacted you enough yet. So you think, your petty creation in your head is bigger than that, or to put it bluntly, you’re too fool of yourself, that’s the only reason why you can have a bad day.  

Otherwise, why? ‘No, the stock market crashed.’So what the sunrose. So many things happen. Does it mean to say nothing goes wrong in my life? More things go wrong with my life than anybody else’s life probably, anybody here I would say because

I don’t hesitate to just put my hand into just about anything. When you put your hand into just about anything, a lot of things will bite you, right? Naturally, it will. I want you to understand this, the whole process of suffering is essential that you have not opened your eyes, you have not peeled your eyes properly, and look at the grandeur of everything that’s happening around you, not yet. You’ve not paid attention. You looked at the world like this. If you just look at one thing, you can’t believe how it is. If you ever look at an ant, just see what kind of technology has gone into it. It can keep you engaged for the rest of your life doing research. Yes or no? So the problem is just this that you are giving too much importance to what’s happening in your little head, not paying attention to all the magnificent things that are happening in the existence.

I have never seen a bad day in existence. I have only seen bad days in people’s moods and minds, isn't it? It's very important as human beings that we have a multifaceted mind it can think of many things.

So when we want to do something specific it's important our mind,

our emotion, our energies, and essentially our consciousness, are focused in the direction of what we wish to do. So invocations are towards this that before we start a certain activity we orient ourselves to that activity. Because right now this is the biggest problem that human beings do not know how to handle their own intelligence.

When they're doing this they will be thinking about that.  In this, all human potential is gone.

Human genius simply does not unfold because all the time when they are home they are doing work...when they are at work they are home.

Now they are working at home, I know but they're somewhere else.

So This is a fundamental thing that we need to bring into all the students and the future leaders, that you must...evolve mechanisms if you can or we can give mechanisms with which you can orient yourself towards a particular task that you're doing right now.

Everything in you, your body, your mind your emotion, your energies...

should cooperate willingly. You shouldn't drag them along.

Because anybody who is dragged along is one thing a burden

another thing is...they are unlistenable. If you drag somebody with you to someplace you will see they are an endless source of the problem.

Your own body, your own mind, your own emotions, become an endless source of trouble for most human beings in their lives.

Simply because they're dragging their mind, they're dragging their emotion, they're dragging their energies to places where it doesn't want to go. They have not oriented them, they have not made them willing.

So this is a fundamental thing that everybody should take care of

especially if you want to be a leader in the world in some capacity

then it's extremely important because you if you cannot manage your own thought and emotion how are you going to manage a thousand people it's going to be a joke! If you want to be a leader you need attention. You must be able to grasp things for what they are

not for what you think it is. You can think whatever nonsense you want

but grasping what is there is most important, isn't it? If you want to come up with solutions you have to grasp what is there. 

Regards,

Gulshan Atique Bahalim.